Getting out of your comfort zone is about pushing yourself beyond fear beyond whatever it is that holds you back, whether it be negative thinking or negative people around you. Not letting those who have known us all our life pigeonhole us into the person they think we are or the person they knew years ago, it's about becoming our best self in spite of the resistance we get from ourselves or from others. .Becoming the person who you are meant to be and still maintaining friendships, relationships, loved ones but on your terms and those terms are because you love them, not because you need them or because they've made you feel insecure about your own thoughts your own dreams.